True story related to spirituality and money!
‘But neither Jesus nor the Buddha charged’ he said. ‘Spiritual services are supposed to be free and available to all.’
Probably I should have deleted the email. But, I couldn’t resist informing him that comparing me to Jesus or the Buddha, while flattering, was entirely inappropriate!
This exchange dates back some 10 years. But the ‘thorn’ of spirituality and money, related to charging for services perceived to be ‘spiritual’, persists.
Unexamined beliefs are a fruitful area for spiritual growth. It could be argued that contemplating what constitutes a healthy, non reactive relationship with money is a spiritual path in its own right – because such an enquiry will surface illusions, limiting beliefs, attachments, addictions, fears and skills deficits.
This month, as I was contemplating my newsletter topic, I had an experience that made me feel a little defensive about my charging practices. Defensiveness indicates resistance, indicates a hidden belief. So, I took a look at what aspect of my psyche was triggered, suspecting the ‘old chestnut’ of spirituality and money.
I took leaflets for my spring qigong classes into my local library to ask if I could post on a notice board displaying local services.
The answer I received was, ‘Only if the classes are free.’
I was taken aback. The fact is that I’d be very happy to run a free of charge qigong class as a contribution to the community, provided local services and businesses could help with free room hire and free printing of leaflets.
But, the Museum, which is next door to the Library, is charging me £25 per hour to hire the room where I hold my class. And the printing shop, opposite, is charging me full price for my leaflets.
I accepted the library’s refusal and I also decided that my charges were perfectly reasonable given my costs and my time.
But, I wonder: Do we have illogical expectations in society with regard to what can be available free of charge, at least when practitioners must cover their own costs? Do we really not expect teachers that have invested money in their training to value their own skill and time?
Personally, I would love to see all highly trained professionals be valued for their services, ‘spiritual’ or not. Surely, this ‘old chestnut’ belongs to a former age and time. Or, maybe it has relevance in ashrams and monasteries where the advisers are supported by an institution.
These days I have a much clearer stance than I used to. Today I would suggest to the man that made the Jesus and the Buddha comment that he may be confusing ‘spiritual’ services with spiritual wisdom.
It is true is that spiritual wisdom is free and available to all. Of course, a person must be able to access it. Then, further problems arise in the interpretive process.
When a person wishes to consult a mentor, coach, healer or therapist for services that may enhance their spiritual development, while resolving their worldly problems, money simplifies what can be complex sequences of exchange.
The man concerned learned of my existence through finding my website. I pay money for the hosting and development of my site. We can be certain that neither Jesus nor the Buddha did!
I’m all for the healing of the spiritual/material split. What is considered to be material, including money, is simply energy in form. As scientist Nassim Haramein says – spiritual is the label we give to those things that science has not yet proven.
Please note: If you’d like to explore working with me, the initial Exploratory session is free of charge! I’ll ask you some searching questions, helping you to clarify your direction, while we both decide whether working together is a good fit.
I’d love to know what you think on the topic of spirituality and money! Please comment if you feel so moved!
Cathy Rowan is an experienced coach, guide and mentor for conscious life change and for clearing obstacles (including the money ones!) on the path to align with your soul callings.
Cathy trained as an Awakening Coach with Arjuna Ardagh, founder of Awakening Coaching.